We Are Here, Here We Are: A Homesteader’s Journey of Obedience and Intuition

Dear Skintini Blog Readers and Homesteading Enthusiasts,

As I sit and reflect on my journey—where I’ve come from, where I’m at, and where I’m headed—I am overwhelmed with a sense of peace. I’ve arrived exactly where I was meant to be. Not by chance. Not by manifestation. And certainly not just by good vibes. But through steady obedience, intentional choices, and a deep, unwavering belief that God has always had a plan for me.

This isn’t the story of a perfect path. It’s not about the glamorous idea of “finding your purpose” overnight. Instead, it’s a story of small, everyday decisions, many of which weren’t easy, that led me here.

The Power of Obedience

You see, I didn’t get here by following trends or waiting for signs from the universe. I didn’t get here by clinging to external validation or searching for purpose in all the wrong places. I got here by saying “no” to everything that wasn’t aligned with the life I envisioned, and to the person I believe God has called me to be.

Every decision, big and small, laid out before me like two distinct paths: one would lead me to a life of distractions, noise, and the status quo; the other, though quieter and less obvious, would lead me toward purpose, simplicity, and fulfillment.

I steadily chose the latter.

Instead of scrolling endlessly through social media, I chose to walk in nature. Instead of binge-watching shows, I chose to pick up a book and learn something new. Instead of sleeping in, I got up early to tend to my home and my heart. Slowly, those little choices grew into much bigger ones—ones that shaped not only my daily routine but my character.

Intentional Living and the Homestead Life

This shift wasn’t just about what I was doing; it was about who I was becoming.

As I chose to walk in obedience to the quiet nudges in my spirit, things around me began to change. My language softened. No more profanity slipped from my lips. My wardrobe became more modest, not out of obligation, but out of a desire to reflect a deeper sense of respect for myself and for others.

And my relationships? Well, they grew more intentional. I began to seek out people who shared my values, my passions, my faith. Those who once felt like “kindred spirits” seemed more and more distant, and I realized it was because God was separating me, setting me apart, and preparing me for something greater.

Living intentionally meant living with purpose. And as I embraced that shift, I found my way to homesteading—a lifestyle that perfectly aligns with the simplicity, intentionality, and deep-rooted purpose I had been searching for. There’s something sacred about growing your own food, raising animals, and learning how to live off the land. It’s a quiet rebellion against the chaos of the world, and a return to what truly matters.

We Are Here, Here We Are

So, here we are. The journey has not been easy. But it has been worth it. Looking around, I can honestly say that I’ve arrived at a place where my life is a reflection of my deepest values.

God has called me to a life of stewardship, simplicity, and service—and I am walking it out, step by step. It hasn’t been about waiting for the right moment to act or hoping that the universe would give me a sign. It’s been about saying “no” to everything that doesn’t align with His will, and trusting that He would make the path clear.

I’m not perfect, but I know I’m exactly where I need to be.

And to all of you—fellow homesteaders, dreamers, and seekers—don’t underestimate the power of the small decisions. It’s not about finding your purpose in one grand moment; it’s about making intentional choices each day that lead you to a life filled with peace, purpose, and joy.

We are here. And here, we are meant to be.

With love and gratitude,
Samantha Dallas

xx

Gardening Tip of the Week 

Eggshells and scraps from your meals can be buried in the dirt and it’s good for the soil. Get a gallon can or container and sit next to your sink and put your scraps in there after every meal like leftover veggies potato peelings, etc. but not meat when it’s full, bury this contents in your garden. Also, once in a while clean out chicken coop chicken manure is a good fertilizer.